Life with Zoe, Teagan and Harper

One of my favorites...

2012-01-09T20:43:00.000-08:00

Are you a Monkee? If you aren't, you should be. This is by far - one of my most favorite blogs. She speaks the truth. All the time. And I want to hang out with her. I think she would make me laugh and feel like I'm actually doing a good job at being a mom and wife (I have days where I really wonder what the heck I'm doing???)

Go check out Momastery. Right now.

Leave my lame little blog and read something REALLY good!!

You wanna know...

2011-11-20T14:16:00.001-08:00

What kind of sucks??? Packing a bunch of stuff up, moving it to a storage unit, then totally changing plans. Cause you know what that means?? You get to go and move all that stuff back to your house. And it's not all stuff you can just get rid of because you don't need it; it was stuff you decided you could live without for a short while. That's what I'm doing. Moving it all back in and putting it all away.

Kid Quote - Teagan

2011-11-16T23:22:00.001-08:00

Teagan: Mom, when I have kids, you're going to be a grandma.
Me: Yup - that's right.
Teagan: Well, unless you're dead. Then you'll be in heaven.

Wrong

2011-11-16T23:17:00.001-08:00

Seriously. It's after 11pm and I should be in bed. Sleeping. So I can wake up tomorrow. I have kids to get up and to school. What is wrong with me? This has been going on for awhile. Right about the time I should be thinking about going to bed, I don't feel tired. Very annoying. Especially with a little person shows up in my room before my alarm goes off (for real - why do they need to get up before 6:30am???) I think I'm going to start boycotting Daylight Savings cause its all their fault!

Things kids say

2011-11-10T13:51:00.001-08:00

Teagan: You're going to be my kids grandma.
Me: Yup, that's right.
Teagan: But what if you're dead by then??

Halloween

2011-11-01T07:54:00.001-07:00

What a day! We were finishing costumes right up to the time we went trick or treating! Our friends, Shannon, Ryan, Payton & Kendall joined us for our trip around the neighborhood and what fun we had! The little kids were so thrilled every time candy was dropped into their bags and the big kids ran from house to house to see what the next treat would be!

Now, the candy sorting and trading has begun. It's so cute to hear them talk about all their treasures!

Hope everyone had a Happy Halloween!!

Kid Quote - Zoe

2011-10-27T07:30:00.001-07:00

While talking about dinosaurs and if they eat people:

Me: I'm sure they did eat cavemen, if they weren't paying attention.

Zoe: Why do they always say 'men'? Like there weren't any girls? Come on!

Ahhhh, a girl all about equality! Love her!

Oh boy

2011-10-24T22:57:00.000-07:00

I've been so busy LIVING life, that I haven't really had the time, or energy, to blog about it! I decided a long time ago not to have blogging guilt. I used to think I HAD to post at least once a week (and ideally, I'd love to do that!) and would get bummed out if I didn't do it. It's not like I have a ton of followers anyway, but I like the challenge of updating those that do read, on a regular basis!

So, since it's been almost a month - here is what we've been up to:

School is going GREAT! Both Teagan and Zoe have WONDERFUL teachers and they are thriving! Teagan asked Mrs. Nash for MORE homework! Zoe is really enjoying her class and all the activities they are doing in 2nd grade.
Attended our family Girls-Get-Away the first weekend in October - what a wonderful time with the women (and little girls!) in our family. Love that time together and wish it happened more often!
Cleaning up and clearing out - we've decided to put our house on the market and see what happens. We've met with our realtor and will probably list in the next few weeks (she's moving offices, so we don't want to make more work for her!) We know, it's a crappy market right now, but we really need to start thinking about doing something different and we need to sell first to do that. So, it's adventure time! I'm fully anticipating a really S.L.O.W. process, considering this is the slowest time of the year for home sales and its a down market in our area. But, you never know. I'll keep you posted!!
We've all been a bit under the weather this past week - hopefully, we are on the mend. (Translation - mom gets sick just as kids are getting better!

Here's a few pic from my iPhone - which I LOVE, LOVE, LOVE! Duffy wants to give it a name since I always have it. It's like having a personal assistant! haha!

All the Little Girls at the 2011 Girls-Get-Away!!

Crazy Hair Day!

Sisters!

Crazy Hair Day!

Luci Dog

Snuggling with Dad - not feeling so great this weekend

Taking pictures to send to Bella

Winning!

2011-10-24T21:17:00.000-07:00

I won!

I follow this great blog, Come on, ilene, (one of my favorite 80's night songs, BTW!). I just love her recipes, sewing projects and creativity. She did her very first giveaway for this great circle scarf...and I won! I'm so excited!

I can't wait for it to get here - I'm getting in the mood for some sewing. Maybe Christmas presents...

Purge

2011-09-14T21:30:00.000-07:00

We are in the process of cleaning things out and getting rid of things for a garage sale. It's amazing to me how much stuff you can get rid of every year (yes, I have a garage sale, every year. Some years I have more stuff than others, but it's a great way to just clear things out.) In the middle of going through closets and bedrooms, rearranging spaces and still doing the day-to-day stuff, Duffy and I are decided that we wanted to put our house on the market.

If you live where we do, please don't laugh - we know there are over 1100 (over 500 in Sequim alone!) properties on the market, but we have to start somewhere! We just don't fit in our house anymore. And we really want to do something different. And we can't do anything until we sell our house, so we have to put it on the market first. Which means renting a storage unit to put all the extra stuff we "need". And more cleaning and organizing.

I'll keep you posted...

Where to start...Guess what I'm doing tomorrow??

Wow - I am a slacker!

2011-08-06T09:36:00.000-07:00

Let's just blame it on summer time, lots of activities, extra kids hanging around and just pure laziness. Yeah, that sounds good.

I have been busy with family stuff, sewing, cleaning things out (haven't really started that yet) for a garage sale, and being a mom, wife, daughter, etc.

I realized the other day, as I was playing with Pinterest (oh. my. goodness. my new favorite place on earth. Or just on the internet!) that I've bought a bunch of shoes this summer. I love shoes. They make me happy. And they can totally make or break your outfit. I'm fortunate to be married to a fellow-shoe junkie, so it really isn't an issue in our relationship - we sort of enable each other actually. And a really weird fact, we have the same size foot.

Ok, here what I've gotten lately:

Needed new HOT PINK shoes!! Source.

Love these! Bought them for my cousin's wedding in San Diego next week - so excited!! Source

Sooooo cute and I can wear into the fall with jeans. AND I got mine at Ross, so CHEAP!! Source

I have these in brown and they are great! Source

Best flip-flops I've ever owned. Source

Ok, I think that's all so far. Just wait, Fall is around the corner and who knows what may be coming to my closet this fall!!!

Finally

2011-06-25T09:58:00.000-07:00

Not that anyone probably cares, but I'm finally posting pictures! I can't believe how busy I've been lately and honestly, blogging has been at the bottom of the priority list! We had the last day of school for both Zoe and Teagan - they are officially a 2nd grader and Kindergartner! I can't believe it! My snuggle-bug is turning 2 next month and it sort of makes me sad - a lot has happened in the past 2 years and I've so enjoyed all the extra time I've been able to spend with her - talk to me again after her and I spend a week in San Diego!!

We are officially on Summer vacation but that doesn't mean lazy days for us! The girls have a couple different VBS's they are attending, we have cousins coming to visit, a trip to Portland planned, time at Grandma's and maybe even some camping! Bring on the sunshine and warm weather!!

I think she was winking...

Mother's Day

Love her...

Sisters

Being silly

Jordan and I - love my brother.

Love him

New definition to Kissing Cousins

Makes my heart happy

I'm so embarressed!

2011-06-04T08:28:00.000-07:00

This is the longest stretch of not blogging that has happened in a long time. I'm sorry! I really do have soooo much to blog about but life is getting in the way!

Here is just a sampling of what's been going on:

birthdays - Teagan, Mom, Aunt Kari, Duffy, Grandma June...
a wedding - Congrats to my cousin Mallory and new hubby Jamie! Their wedding was beautiful and a lot of fun! Your wedding gift will be on the way soon. I promise.
a memorial service - celebrating the wonderful life of my Great Uncle Dan.
traveling to visit family - trips to Aberdeen and PORTLAND. Wish P-Town could have been a bit longer but still fun!!
shopping with some of my favorite gals - enough said.
sunshine - no enough.
garden planting - things are starting to grow!
rain - way too much.
ear infections - Zoe missed an entire week of school because she had an middle and outer ear infection. She missed the wedding and a week of swimming!
flooding washing machine - yay. Luckily, it was just the drain hose coming out of the drain. So, didn't have to get a new machine (that will be a sad day, cause I LOVE my machine. As much as one can love a home appliance.)
flu - uhm, other people throwing up grosses me out. It was not a good 2 days and I realized I don't get paid enough to do that job. Isn't it considered hazardous bodily material in some medical professions???
allergies
work - yeah.
a baby shower - too cute.
a house-full of fun for the long weekend - we had 6 kids and 6 adults at our house over Memorial Day weekend. It was also Duffy's and June's birthdays, so fun was had by everyone. I was a totally lame mom and didn't take a single picture - what's wrong with me?!?!
swimming - starting back up on Monday!
lots of cooking - lots and lots and lots of cooking. and baking.
beer brewing - uhm yeah, got Duffy a home brewing kit for his birthday. Our first batch is brewing and will be bottled soon.
....and sewing - not enough if I can be totally honest! I have a pile of stuff I need/want to work on.
Oh yeah, and all the regular stuff like laundry and dishes!

I need up upload a bunch of pictures and get some posted.. Right now, I need some coffee.

Kid Quote - Teagan

2011-05-09T21:35:00.000-07:00

This morning while trying to get breakfast, coffee, and everyone ready, this is the conversation I had with Teagan, who will be 5 (oh. my. goodness!) on Thursday.

T: Mom, I don't have an imaginary friend anymore.

Me: Oh, really. I forgot you had one; what was their name again?

T: Rosietta

M: What happened to Rosietta?

T: She died. She was walking and not paying attention and stepped out in front of a car and got ran over.

M: Oh my! That's horrible.

T: Yeah, well, she was invisible, so it's not like they could see her!

no,no,no

2011-05-09T21:29:00.000-07:00

...We have not fallen off the face of the earth. We have just been SUPER busy! The big girls started swim lessons again this past week and between school, jobs, church activities, family and friends, it's hard to even catch my breath!!

We had a house-full this past weekend, celebrating Teagan's birthday (May 12th) and Mother's day. Next weekend, we are heading out of town for my cousins wedding and the weekend after that, down to Portland for another busy weekend. I feel like I'm running in 25 directions!

SOOOOOOO, hopefully, in the next few weeks, while traveling, getting laundry done, making a few key birthday presents (Teagan 5/12, Mom 5/24, Kari - sister-in-law 5/25, Duffy and Mom-in-law 5/30), and life in general, I will get some photos up! I promise!

10 Things I Love, April 28

2011-04-28T22:31:00.000-07:00

Random hugs from a sweet, almost 2 year old.
Hearing Mr. P say, "I love you, Missa" in the cutest 3 year old voice ever.
We had all kinds of crazy weather today - sun, clouds, thunder, lightning, rain, hail, a little snow, and SUN again.
Called my hair stylist for appointments for Zoe, Teagan and myself. Thought we'd have to wait until next week. Nope. Going tomorrow! YAY!! Katie is WONDERFUL!!
Looking forward to a low-key weekend at home. The next 3 weekends are FULL!!! Let the craziness of spring/summer begin!!
Got a few great deals at Old Navy - yay online shopping!!
Silly dancing before bedtime - theirs, not mine.
Enjoyed a nice glass of wine with dinner.

The Office made me cry - it was sweet.
It's supposed to be sunny this weekend - its about time!!

Soooooooo...

2011-04-17T23:17:00.000-07:00

...did I mention that I went back to work? Yup, after 2 years of being home full-time, I'm working a big whopping 12-15 hours a week and it is AWESOME!

Don't get me wrong, I love being a mom and wife and being home at the end of my 3rd pregnancy and for Harper's first years, has been amazing and such a blessing. BUT, there has been some major stress associated with that, and if I can be totally honest...I think I'm a better mom when I get to do something other than playing, cleaning, laundry, and cooking.

Being a mom is a 24/7 job that you don't get to go home from. You don't get to leave work at work, you don't ever really stop thinking about things - did I switch the laundry? What's for dinner? Do we need milk? Are my kids happy? Why is she so crabby today? Am I being too hard? Not hard enough? Crap, need to switch the laundry!

So, what am I doing?? I am working in the office at our church; I prefer office assistant but old-school folks call me the secretary. We go to a smaller, low-key church and I've been working Mon-Wen. the past 2 weeks and I think the phone has rang 7 times - and 3 of those calls were my mom! Right now, I'm still settling in, answering the phone, organizing some of the office stuff, revamping some of the documents and such. I'll be sending out weekly emails of church happenings, coordinating nursery and children's church activities, ordering supplies, etc. I'm really excited about everything and the possibilities that lie ahead. I love that my family is still my first priority and that my job is secondary to the well-being of my family; my kids are always welcome - Zoe went in with me for a bit on Friday afternoon to finish up a project. Nothing like child labor!

WOW

2011-04-03T22:20:00.000-07:00

It has been a whirl-wind of activity around our house lately. I've sat down to blog a few times and have just gotten side-tracked. So here is a run-down of what's been going on!!

The little girl that made me a mama, turned 7 on March 24th! 7!! Where did 7 years go??? Her birthday weekend was filled with family dinner (with great-grandparents and s'more pizza), 48 cupcakes, roller blades, new clothes, party with tacos (her choice) and double layer lemon cake with browned butter frosting and toasted coconut (her choice again!). What a fun weekend of celebration!
March 31st marked 10 years of wedded bliss for Duffy and I. My cousin, who is getting married in May, asked if it went by quickly. Yes. Yes, indeed. Duffy and I have been together for 15 years and it still doesn't seem that long. He is my best friend, my confidant, and partner for life. Love you babe!!
Spring break is coming to an end. The big girls spent a couple of days with grandparents, we had friends over all day on Wednesday, girls had dinner at Grandma Tine (my mom, Christine) and Grandpa Noel's while we went to dinner Thursday, we traveled to a super fun bridal shower this weekend. Ahhh, it's a lazy Sunday at our house!

Amy Butler Birdie Sling - Finished Product

2011-03-30T11:25:00.000-07:00

Ok, so I should taken picture as I was putting the bag together, but I was too excited to get it done. Let's just say, I LOVE this bag! I'm already starting on another one!! I've got plans for making a smaller version for some friends who don't love big bags (what is wrong with them??) This bag is HUGE and holds so much and I'm in love with it!

I lucked out and was able to make a copy of my sister-in-laws pattern, but you can find this pattern all over online or at Amy Butler, where there is a variety of ways to find a pattern. I will definately purchase more of her patterns in the future; the directions are easy to follow and full of details.

New Project

2011-03-25T08:59:00.000-07:00

Birdie Sling Bag

So, this is my next project. My sister-in-law has this bag and I LOVE it! I borrowed the pattern and am excited to get started! Now, to just have the time to do it! It's hard when 3 little ladies want ~~attention~~ to help!

Here are the fabrics I'll be using for the bag. I'll try and post pictures as I'm working and of the completed project. If it's smooth sailing, some people may be getting them as birthday presents - hmmmm, wonder who that could be????

This will be the outside/inside band and handles

This will be the interior lining

Exterior body of bag - SOOOOO EXCITED!

Project 31, Day 24

2011-03-13T23:09:00.000-07:00

What is Jesus teaching you presently?

Patience. Plain and simple.

Patience with my kids - it's been one of those weeks, months...

Patience with my husband.

Patience with others.

Patience with things I can't really control.

Patience with my life.

Patience, Patience, Patience.

It's been a rough week actually, and I've written this post about 10 times and nothing seems right. I'm feeling really tested/challenged and at the end of my rope. My kids look at me sort of weird when I start crying about reading a book - when what I'm really crying about is the fighting about who sits closer to me when I read and who is touching the other person and who can't see the pictures, etc. etc. I cry because what I really want to do is throw the book across the room and scream!

I'm tired from certain things in my life. I know that it's just a season and won't last forever. Things will change and get better, it's just a matter of being patient. Ahhhh, there is that word again. My girl-friend Kristi called this week and we talked about planning a girls get-away and all I wanted to do was say "Now? You wanna go right now? Great! Give me 10 minutes and I'm outta here!!" Again, patience. Patience, Patience, Patience.

Embarrassed

2011-03-11T09:52:00.000-08:00

I'm embarrassed to be an American right now.

While there are people in the midst of tragedy in Japan, North Africa, the Middle East, Haiti, etc., the Today Show (and all sorts of other news programs; the Today show just happened to be what I have on this morning!) is wasting time and money "reporting" on the shenanigans of Charlie Sheen! Who really cares? All the media frenzy is just adding to his dysfunction and makes us look like fools for continuing to watch!

That's my little rant for the day.
Please don't take it personally if Charlie is one of your friends, favorite actor, etc. Don't send me hate mail.

Slacker

2011-03-06T21:51:00.000-08:00

Wow, I have been slacking. Big time. I'm sorry. A lot is going on and I've had a lot on my mind. Trust me, I haven't even been doing much crafting. Here is what's been happening.

Teething Harper - 4 molars at once. She has had a runny nose, drool, cough for the longest time. I'm also getting tired of all messy diapers, makes cloth diapering a headache. She's a trooper though and is sleeping great. She's just needier and crabbier.
Swimming Lessons - Zoe and Teagan started lessons last week and are loving it. Zoe has always had a love/hate relationship with the water, so this is great. Their teacher is fun and they are starting at the very beginning and we'll go from there. Teagan keeps showing off and going under-water just because she can and like to show that she's not scared! Silly girls!!
Wet, depressing weather. After a week of snow, unplanned days home from school, rain, rain and more rain, I'm SOOOOO ready for a break. Like a break from my life. Just some time to do something that has NOTHING to do with kids.
Laundry, laundry and more laundry, It's never-ending and just when I think I'm caught up, there is another load to do!
Dishes, dishes and more dishes. Today, alone, I unloaded the DW, reloaded, ran, unloaded and reloaded. I also had a bunch of stuff to do by hand!! How did that happen??
Reading - If you haven't read Room, put it on your list. Right now. And read it!! It is amazing and a great story!
Starting to think about birthdays. We don't do big, huge birthday bashes for the girls every year. Last year, Zoe and Harper had the big parties (Harper turned 1 and Zoe 6) so this year, we will do something simple and small with family. Teagan's birthday falls around the same weekend as my cousin's wedding! So, I'm starting to think about a Fairy-themed birthday for a soon-to-be 5 year old! Better get motivated.
Thinking and browsing the internet for craft ideas. I have some projects in mind to start but life keeps happening and they get pushed to the back burner. And when I do have some quiet time, it's 8:30pm, the sewing machine is in Zoe's room (and I'm afraid to check it out. It's dying and I desperately need a new one, but that's not in the budget right now. Especially since I want a Bernina!)
Thinking and planning for some upcoming changes in our family. Some of you know what I'm talking about and until I can say more, we'll have to leave it at that! Keep praying that things transition smoothly and for my continued patience and faith that God is in control. No matter what. And no, I'm not pregnant. No, no, no, no, no!!

Ok, enough for now. I'll get back to Project 31 this week. I promise!

Day 23

2011-02-28T22:22:00.000-08:00

What are your strengths? What are your weaknesses?

I'm going to keep this short and sweet. I'm having a hard time focusing on stuff right now, a lot on my mind. So, talking about myself is kind of hard. I can think of a ton of things for my weaknesses and only a few for my strengths.

Strengths

Organized
Resourceful
Creative
Fun-loving
Sensitive

Weaknesses

High expectations
Chocolate
Critical
Self-Conscious
Coffee
Owls - my new obsession! Love them and am always looking for a CUTE one!!

Snow Day and Project 31, Day 21

2011-02-25T08:12:00.000-08:00

Things have been a bit crazy around here. We have had snow days the last two days, so being cooped up with 3 kids is tiring. The big girls want to go and play outside so I spend 15 minutes getting them ready to go (remember to go potty!) then they stay outside for 10 minutes! I think they were out 3 different times and each time, they put on brand new outfit when they came back in! My laundry pile is growing out of control!!

Nothing like a blanket fort to keep kids occupied!

I haven't forgotten Project 31 - I've been thinking about it, just finding the motivation to write. And for some reason, I'm having a hard time writing out my words of encouragement. And I'm never at a loss for words.

Write a letter to your husband to encourage him (or if you are single- your future husband.)

Duffy -

You are more amazing than you think. You work hard everyday at a job that isn't what you dreamed about doing and that is hard to enjoy sometimes. You get up before everyone else (3am) and work HARD all day. But you go, and make a difference to the people you encounter. I'm sorry that people aren't always nice and friendly and thankful for what you do. But I notice and I'm thankful.

It's been a rough couple of months and through it all, I've been reminded how God picked YOU just for me. You are the perfect match for me and I appreciate you so much! You've kept me laughing and smiling, which is one of my most favorite things about you! Thank you for everything that you do and making our family complete!

Love you forever - me

Day 20

2011-02-20T22:43:00.000-08:00

Write about your job and why you love it or hate it.

Mom. Mother. Mama. Madre. Mamasita. Mummy. Ma. Mommy.

LOVE: Comforting scratched knees and bumped elbows; that I'm the one taking them to school and picking them up; spending quiet mornings with them; playing games; doing crafts; and just BEING with them. I love reading books at naptime and snuggling. I love that I have the great blessing in helping shape their little lives and its something I take seriously.

HATE: The whining, fighting, arguing that siblings do; always having to be the referee and negotiator. I hate when they are sick and don't feel well. I hate that I can't fix every thing that hurts them or bothers them. I hate the never-ending laundry and dishes. I hate that they grow up faster than you want them to.

Check it out!

2011-02-20T21:25:00.000-08:00

A MUST see movie!!

This is a GREAT movie. Sweet story, wonderful music, funny, inspiring. Once is a must see for everyone. Put it on your Netflix queue TODAY!

Day 19

2011-02-17T21:34:00.000-08:00

Write about your favorite comfort food (we are women- we ALL have comfort food!)

Hands down, Mac n' Cheese. I love it when the kids request it for lunch. I miss Olympia because Ramblin' Jack's has the best mac n' cheese around. If one of the girls orders it at a restaurant, I have to try it. YUMMY! My second favorite comfort food is Oatmeal Raisen Chipper cookies - a cross between an oatmeal raisen and chocolate chip cookie. It's the PERFECT cookie.

THE LIST:

~~Day 1. What does beauty mean to you?~~

~~Day 2. What makes you uniquely you?~~

~~Day 3. Who is someone you know who inspires beauty?~~

~~Day 4. Style 31. Post a pic of you in your favorite outfit.~~

~~Day 5. Write a blog thanking someone who has made your heart come alive.~~

~~Day 6. Jaded beauty. Has the world's definition of beauty ever jaded you?~~

~~Day 7. Write a blog to encourage another beautiful woman.~~

~~Day 8. Have a beauty secret (e.g. hair tip, make up tip)? Share, please!~~

~~Day 9. What virtues do you value in yourself?~~

~~Day 10. What is Jesus teaching you as a wife, mom, or friend? (Or just woman in general?)~~

~~Day 11. Post a recipe. Or if you don't cook, try a new recipe and write about how it turned out (pictures please!).~~

~~Day 12. Write about what wears you out as a woman.~~

~~Day 13. Write about something you would like to change about yourself for the better.~~

~~Day 14. Style 31. Post an outfit pic!~~

~~Day 15. Write to encourage a friend. Inspire her beauty.~~

~~Day 16. Write a letter to your daughter, or a young girl in your life. Tell her what beauty means.~~

~~Day 17. Write about 3 things that make you happy.~~

~~Day 18. Describe your personality.~~

~~Day 19. Write about your favorite comfort food (we are women- we ALL have comfort food!)~~

Day 20. Write about your job and why you love it or hate it.

Day 21. Write a letter to your husband to encourage him (or if you are single- your future husband.)

Day 22. What are some needs that need to be met in your community? Blog about how to extend your hand to those who need you.

Day 23. What are your strengths? What are your weaknesses?

Day 24. What is Jesus teaching you presently?

Day 25. Style 31. Post a pic of your favorite comfy clothes.

Day 26. What do you hope your grandchildren will say about you someday when you are gone?

Day 27. Write a blog to encourage someone and build their confidence!

Day 28. Write about your insecurities as a woman.

Day 29. Write about "a day in the life of me." (Pics are great!)

Day 30. Who is your role model as a woman?

Day 31. Write about your dreams and goals as a beautiful woman!

Day 18

2011-02-16T15:29:00.000-08:00

Describe your personality.

How I would describe myself

* Outgoing * Funny * Feisty * Self-Conscious * Fun-Loving * People-Pleaser * Honest * Reliable *

How my husband described me

* Fiery * Spicy * Feisty * Funny *

How my kids described me

* Happy * Nice * Loving * Kind * Polite * Helpful *

Family Time

2011-02-15T13:03:00.000-08:00

Cooking with my mom and sister-in-law

Putting Zoe and Grandpa to work

The great house we stayed in - lots of space, huge commercial kitchen (I was in love!), indoor hot tub.

Zoe and dad

Harper and Bella looking out the window

My brother - so serious.

Yeah right!

I love her!

On the water

This past weekend, we spent the entire weekend relaxing, visiting, cooking, eating, playing cards and celebrating being a family. It was nice to get away from our day-to-day life and enjoy time with my parents, brother, sister-in-law and niece. It was a much-needed reminder of how blessed I am to have the family I have!!

Day 17

2011-02-10T22:02:00.000-08:00

Write about 3 things that make you happy.

Coffee. It makes my day, literally. I'd drink it all day but I need to get sleep at some point. One morning, I told my kids they couldn't bug me until I had finished one cup of coffee. While they were coloring at the table, I overheard Teagan say, "Mommy's coffee is kind of like a time-out for adults." A 4 year old totally gets it!!

Creating. I love when I am feeling creative. Whether it is sewing, embroidery, making cards, craft projects with the girls - it makes me happy to see something hand made. I love the blog-world and how people can show off all their projects!

Cooking. I cook to show people I love them. I find it relaxing (most of the time!) and often, therapeutic. I love that food is a center-piece for almost every event at our house. I want to go to culinary school - not for the grades or to prove anything. Just to go and learn and be there, cooking.

Day 16

2011-02-09T21:42:00.000-08:00

Write a letter to your daughter, or a young girl in your life. Tell her what beauty means.

Dear Zoe, Teagan and Harper -

Don't ever stop being YOU! You are each unique, smart, funny, and beautiful. You are beautiful when you are playing together; when you are playing fair; when you are being respectful and loving. You are beautiful when you stand up for yourself and when you forgive someone who hurts you. You are beautiful when you show others grace. You are beautiful when you smile. You are beautiful when you laugh. You are beautiful forever and always.
Teagan, you are beautiful when you are laughing so hard your eyes disappear. You are beautiful when you are doing things the way YOU want to do them. You are beautiful when you let your big sister be in charge. You are beautiful when you take risks and try new things.

Zoe, you are beautiful when you just KNOW you are right! You are beautiful when you learn something new and are excited. You are beautiful when you treat others with kindness and love. You are beautiful when you are being helpful.

Harper, you are beautiful when you laugh at everything I do - that will change someday! You are beautiful when you follow and copy everything your big sisters do. You are beautiful when you try and pout your way into getting what you want!

I want to you grow up knowing I love you forever and always and no matter what. You are beautiful and it has nothing to do with what you look like.

I love you - Mom

Day 14 and 15

2011-02-07T22:36:00.000-08:00

Day 14: Style 31. Post an outfit picture.

So, this is what you get. Taking a picture of myself, or even just what I was wearing, was difficult! I tried getting Zoe to take one but she kept goofing around, so I had to figure it out!

As far as the outfit goes, I wear jeans a lot. So, instead of always just a t-shirt of sweatshirt, I try to dress it up. Today is a smocked collar, 3/4 sleeve shirt with a scarf. I love scarves - they go with everything and on windy, blustery days like today, are so nice and cozy. My Dansko mary-janes and Smartwool socks are keeping my feet nice and toasty too!

Day 15. Write to encourage a friend. Inspire her beauty.

Dear Becky -

You are my sister-in-law but you were my friend first. Before boys, drama, life, babies, jobs - you were a friend. I was always drawn to you fun-loving spirit and miss the days of working out, shopping and just being women with no worries.

I have so loved watching you as you have moved into your role of mommy. You have your hands full with 3 babies 4 years and under! I think you are doing an amazing job and I pray for you regularly - your sanity, peace of mind, health, spirit and well-being. Your job is an important one, but remember to take care of yourself as well. My mom used to always say, jokingly, "If mama ain't happy, ain't nobody happy" and there is a real truth to that! Do what makes you happy; be what makes you happy!

Be Beautiful, my friend!

Day 13

2011-02-04T22:24:00.000-08:00

Write about something you would like to change about yourself for the better.

I want to live in the present. I think I spend way too much time thinking/planning/worrying about what's going to happen tomorrow, this weekend, next week, next month. I want to enjoy each day for what it is - a new chance for experiences, memories and ways to teach AND learn from my children. I can't ever get this day back, so why am I busy thinking about the next?

Day 12

2011-02-03T21:56:00.000-08:00

Write about what wears you out as a woman.

Me.

I wear myself out. I expect a lot of myself and my to-do list is a mile long. All the time. With things on it that I'll probably never get done, but like to think I will.

I wear a lot of hats (what women doesn't) - wife, mom, sister, daughter, friend, chef, doctor, counselor, taxi driver, story-teller, house-keeper, personal shopper and bookstore employee (very part-time!). And I want to do every one of those jobs perfectly. But that is impossible. And I know that, but I still try and that wears me out. And it comes back to this, I just need to let it go. I need to continue to strive to do great things but I don't have to be perfect, I never will be.

Day 11

2011-02-02T20:48:00.000-08:00

Post a recipe. Or if you don't cook, try a new recipe and write about how it turned out (pictures please!).

Totally planned on making this and taking pictures today, but, it didn't happen!! Oh well! It is super easy and I think you should go make some. Right now. I would, except everyone is in bed and I'd end up eating it all by myself.

Melissa's Caramel Popcorn

Pop popcorn (3 bags of microwave popcorn) and put into a clean, brown paper bag (I know, seems strange, but it totally works! and it makes for easy clean-up.)

1/4c. Karo Syrup
1/2c. Brown Sugar
1/2 tsp. Salt
1 cube butter

Put above ingredients in microwave safe bowl and microwave for 2 minutes on high. Remove and stir well and blended. Return to microwave and cook for 2 more minutes. Remove and add 1/2 tsp. Baking Soda and 1 tsp. Vanilla.

Mix caramel into bag of popcorn. Stir well with long-handled wooden spoon. Caramel is really hot! Close paper bag and microwave for 30 seconds. Pour into large bowl or cookie sheet and let cool 30 minutes. Enjoy!!

**I like lots of caramel and sometimes make 1.5x the caramel - super yummy!**

Day 10

2011-01-31T21:20:00.000-08:00

What is Jesus teaching you as a wife, mom, or friend? (Or just woman in general?)

Wow - I missed a few days - I have been out of town for my nephew's 4th birthday. It was CRAZY fun - for a kids party!! He was so excited and I was so glad we could be there. That being said, I'm just picking up where I left off and letting a day go. Which is a great lead-in to what I being taught - letting go.

I'm an A-type, overachiever that feels like I have to do it all, all the time. I expect the best from myself and my family and have a hard time letting go if things don't go how I think they should. I am a planner and I want my plan to be THE plan (most of the time!!)

I found myself unemployed for virtually the first time in my adult life in April 2009 (NOT part of my plan!!) and since then, I've found myself doing a lot of letting go - job, finances, stress, health, worry, fear, children, family. And giving it to God. I can't control everything and I'm learning that I really don't want to. When I had to let go of one area (my job, being home full-time), it opened my eyes to really see what God's plan is for my life. And I'm able to let go of other things I've been trying to control.

Through it all, I keep hearing the whisper of "I am here. I am with you. Let. It. Go."

Kid Quote

2011-01-28T07:47:00.000-08:00

Location: Dinner table

Teagan: Mom, will you be dead when I get bigger?

Zoe: TEAGAN!! That is SO rude. She'll be dead when you get older.

Day 8

2011-01-27T22:15:00.000-08:00

Have a beauty secret (e.g. hair tip, make up tip)? Share, please!

My toe-nails are ALWAYS painted. Even in the dead of winter, they look good. Even if everything else is out of place and disheveld, I know that my toes look good!

And I always wear mascara and lip gloss - C.O. Bigelow Mentha-Shine is my favorite - just a hint of color.

Day 7

2011-01-27T12:36:00.000-08:00

Write a blog to encourage another beautiful woman.

I'm struggling with this post - I always feel so encouraged by others and don't think of myself as being an "encourager". This past month, two close friends had new babies. They were already mothers, of one child each (boys!!), so they were already doing the mommy-job. I found and continue to find myself in a position to encourage these mom's as they are starting the adventure of being mothers to more than one child. So, my post is dedicated to Leslie and Shannon - both beautiful women, beautiful moms, and beautiful friends.

This last month, watching each of you move into your new role as a mom of 2, has been so much fun. I know that you are feeling tired, worn-out, stressed out and wondering why you signed up for this - but that is so short-lived. You will soon look back and wonder where the time went. But you are doing AMAZING work right now!! Your heart grows bigger everyday as you experience each new thing baby does and what P and N are learning and doing! You are so beautiful, inside and out. You are beautiful with lack of sleep, messy hair, baby goobers, etc. You are beautiful in how you nurture your babies, teach your boys and love your husbands. You are beautiful in all that you do and will continue to do!

**Leslie - I'm dreading the day you move away. You have been so good for my soul this past year!! Thank you!!

**Shannon - thank you for letting me be totally honest, all the time! Thank you for making me laugh and sharing P with me and my family!! I love you!!

Day 6

2011-01-26T12:18:00.000-08:00

Jaded beauty. Has the world's definition of beauty ever jaded you?

I was curious on the actual meaning of jade:

jade - noun, verb, jad·ed, jad·ing.
–noun
1. a worn-out, broken-down, worthless, or vicious horse.
2. a disreputable or ill-tempered woman. (MY personal favorite!!!)
–verb (used with object), verb (used without object)
3. to make or become dull, worn-out, or weary, as from overwork or overuse.

Plain and simply - Yes. On top of all the other things I think about and worry about, how I "look" shouldn't be something I worry about but it is. And I sometimes get ill-tempered when I think about myself in the worldly sense of beauty. I hate that I'm secretly comparing myself to others and I especially hate when I think I'm better, in some way. {I can't believe I just admitted that - but isn't that what part of this project is, to challenge yourself and make you think??} No wonder women are so hard on themselves and critical of others. Have you looked at a fashion magazine lately??? I get tired just looking at them and trying to keep up!!
And then I think about raising 3 daughters and how, as parents, you have to start early with promoting what true beauty is. I have to set the example; I have to love ME! All of me - the stretch-marked, not-so-flat tummy me, the "I've had 3 babies" body me. I want them to always feel self-confident and beautiful, that they are unique and God (and mom and dad) love them NO MATTER WHAT! I have my work cut out for me!!

Day 5

2011-01-25T09:39:00.000-08:00

Write a blog thanking someone who has made your heart come alive.

You make me giddy when you walk in the door. My day doesn't feel right until I talk to you in the morning (he goes to work at 3am). You make me laugh EVERY day. Your creativity inspires me. Your ability to fix things amazes me. Your work ethic is to be admired. You make me feel beautiful all the time. You have this uncanny ability to say just the right thing at just the right moment - at least most of the time!! Thank you for making me feel like I am doing the most important job in the world and appreciating all that goes on around here. Thank you for helping me be a better "me".

***This is what I go through trying to get a "nice" picture of my hubby.

No wonder Zoe is a ham is EVERY picture we take!!***

Day 4

2011-01-24T15:30:00.000-08:00

Style 31. Post a pic of you in your favorite outfit.

Seriously? My favorite outfit?? I have NO idea what my favorite outfit is - something that makes me not ~~feel~~ look like a stay-at-home mom of 3. Something that makes me feel good about myself, confident and maybe, just a tiny bit, sexy.

I love jeans and love that I can dress them up or down. I wear them almost every day and love my custom made jeans, my $3 Seven for All Mankind (yes, I said $3!!) and my skinny jeans. I laughed when skinny jeans became fashionable again and never thought I'd be wearing them, but they are definately a must with my next favorite item.

I love my knee-high black boots and love to wear them several times a week. They look great with skinny jeans, skirts, leggings, etc. And they are so practical for my life - I can wear them all day, run after kids in them, walk through puddles at the store and not have wet feet. Practical yet sassy....

My favorite boots. LOVE them!!

My outfit yesterday - skinny jeans, long-sleeve t-shirt with gray sweater. And Black boots mentioned above!!

Day 3

2011-01-23T10:06:00.000-08:00

Who is someone you know who inspires beauty?

Beautiful Danika with her girls

I first met Danika in college. She intimidated me and made me a bit nervous (she'll be surprised to read that!). She had been at Western since she was a freshman, and I was a transfer student, so I was a newbie. We were both starting the Human Services program as juniors and I knew NOBODY and she knew EVERYONE, or at least it seemed like she did! I remember thinking how confident, self-assured, outgoing, engaging, friendly cute, perky and athletic she was! ***Side note - Danika is a runner. Not a part-time, when I feel like it runner either. I had the bright idea to run with her one time - hahahaha! What a joke on me that was!! That ended our lets-run-together relationship.

I have fond memories of the first few years of friendship - Core, studying, hanging-out, partying - she told me her house was only a "few" blocks from downtown Bellingham, when we decided to walk home after a night out. It wasn't. And she kept wanting to sit down on the side-walk and rest. And it was cold. We worked together for a year, right out of college and it was great. I knew then that Danika was a forever-friend.

Life has taken many twists and turns and through it all, she continues to be an inspiration of beauty to me (read my Day 1 post). She has a great attitude about life, even when things haven't gone smoothly or how she planned them (she's a planner, like me!) She's a wonderful mother and teacher - she is patient and kind and oh-so creative. I remember when my neighbor met her recently (they are going to school together) and how awe-struck and inspired he was by her attitude about life. He saw her Beauty. I don't see Danika very often (we live 80 miles apart, have families, etc. etc.) but she means a lot to me and always makes me feel beautiful!

*Danika - thank you for sharing your Beauty with everyone you meet. Kira and Elke are so lucky to have you as their mom, showing them what true beauty is. Chad is lucky to have you as a partner and I'm lucky to have you has a friend. Love you!!

THE Project 31 LIST:

~~Day 1. What does beauty mean to you?~~
~~Day 2. What makes you uniquely you?~~
~~Day 3. Who is someone you know who inspires beauty?~~
Day 4. Style 31. Post a pic of you in your favorite outfit.
Day 5. Write a blog thanking someone who has made your heart come alive.
Day 6. Jaded beauty. Has the world's definition of beauty ever jaded you?
Day 7. Write a blog to encourage another beautiful woman.
Day 8. Have a beauty secret (e.g. hair tip, make up tip)? Share, please!
Day 9. What virtues do you value in yourself?
Day 10. What is Jesus teaching you as a wife, mom, or friend? (Or just woman in general?)
Day 11. Post a recipe. Or if you don't cook, try a new recipe and write about how it turned out (pictures please!).
Day 12. Write about what wears you out as a woman.
Day 13. Write about something you would like to change about yourself for the better.
Day 14. Style 31. Post an outfit pic!
Day 15. Write to encourage a friend. Inspire her beauty.
Day 16. Write a letter to your daughter, or a young girl in your life. Tell her what beauty means.
Day 17. Write about 3 things that make you happy.
Day 18. Describe your personality.
Day 19. Write about your favorite comfort food (we are women- we ALL have comfort food!)
Day 20. Write about your job and why you love it or hate it.
Day 21. Write a letter to your husband to encourage him (or if you are single- your future husband.)
Day 22. What are some needs that need to be met in your community? Blog about how to extend your hand to those who need you.
Day 23. What are your strengths? What are your weaknesses?
Day 24. What is Jesus teaching you presently?
Day 25. Style 31. Post a pic of your favorite comfy clothes.
Day 26. What do you hope your grandchildren will say about you someday when you are gone?
Day 27. Write a blog to encourage someone and build their confidence!
Day 28. Write about your insecurities as a woman.
Day 29. Write about "a day in the life of me." (Pics are great!)
Day 30. Who is your role model as a woman?
Day 31. Write about your dreams and goals as a beautiful woman!

2011-01-22T10:32:00.001-08:00

Love it! Birthday present from my mom - she knows me so well!

Day 2

2011-01-21T23:39:00.000-08:00

What makes you uniquely you?

my family - without the influence of my parents and brother, I wouldn't be who I am. I learned conflict resolution, problem-solving, sharing, loving, fighting, laughing, unconditional love, acceptance...
my custom designed tattoo - no else has one like it!
my "fiery" personality - someone described me this way recently and the more I thought about it, the more I realized it fits.
I consider myself friendly and outgoing. But I hate talking on the phone. I don't even like to call and order take-out. What is wrong with me?
My best friend lives 2000 miles away and we "talk" every day. But never on the phone. Thank goodness for email, texting, etc. We've been friends since 7th grade and I don't know what I'd do without her.
My children - no one else is Zoe, Teagan and Harper's mother. No one else carried them for 9+ months (they were ALL overdue). No one else birthed them. No one else worries as much as I do, wonders and prays as much as I do.
My hubby - God got it right on! Nathan mellows me out, helps me to not take life or myself too seriously and loves me NO MATTER WHAT!
God made me!

Day 1

2011-01-21T07:12:00.000-08:00

Day 1. What does beauty mean to you?

You always think you have the answers to questions like this, but when you think about it, there is so much more to it. It's more than what you or other people see on the surface. I think it's more about what you don't see that defines beauty to me.

peace
joy
God's never-ending grace and forgiveness
laughter - not taking life too seriously and being able to laugh at yourself
self-assurance, even when you feel scared and nervous
feeling loved
grace towards others
feeling appreciated
confidence, or at least acting like you have it! I'm always amazed when people tell me they think I'm self-confident - I NEVER feel very confident. I always second-guess myself, always feel like I'm forgetting something and worrying that I'm not doing enough.
kindness - it goes along way and speaks SO LOUDLY to others. It speaks so much to your beauty and soul.
patience - I need to work on this. I'm not always very patient and I don't think I'm setting a good example to the girls. You should see me in the school parking lot. Not good. Not good at all.
unconditional love

These are just a few of the things I hope to teach Zoe, Teagan and Harper about what TRUE beauty is. I want them to grow up knowing they are beautiful, inside and out, no matter what.

Project 31

2011-01-20T22:38:00.000-08:00

While reading my friend Gretchen's blog, she mentioned Project 31 shared by Mandy at She Breathes Deeply. What a great idea and a great way to look at beauty and how God created us all BEAUTIFUL! As a mom of 3 girls (heaven help me!), I want them to always know they are beautiful and unique, inside and out.

So, here goes - wish me luck!

Here is the list of upcoming topics!!
THE LIST:
Day 1. What does beauty mean to you?
Day 2. What makes you uniquely you?
Day 3. Who is someone you know who inspires beauty?
Day 4. Style 31. Post a pic of you in your favorite outfit.
Day 5. Write a blog thanking someone who has made your heart come alive.
Day 6. Jaded beauty. Has the world's definition of beauty ever jaded you?
Day 7. Write a blog to encourage another beautiful woman.
Day 8. Have a beauty secret (e.g. hair tip, make up tip)? Share, please!
Day 9. What virtues do you value in yourself?
Day 10. What is Jesus teaching you as a wife, mom, or friend? (Or just woman in general?)
Day 11. Post a recipe. Or if you don't cook, try a new recipe and write about how it turned out (pictures please!).
Day 12. Write about what wears you out as a woman.
Day 13. Write about something you would like to change about yourself for the better.
Day 14. Style 31. Post an outfit pic!
Day 15. Write to encourage a friend. Inspire her beauty.
Day 16. Write a letter to your daughter, or a young girl in your life. Tell her what beauty means.
Day 17. Write about 3 things that make you happy.
Day 18. Describe your personality.
Day 19. Write about your favorite comfort food (we are women- we ALL have comfort food!)
Day 20. Write about your job and why you love it or hate it.
Day 21. Write a letter to your husband to encourage him (or if you are single- your future husband.)
Day 22. What are some needs that need to be met in your community? Blog about how to extend your hand to those who need you.
Day 23. What are your strengths? What are your weaknesses?
Day 24. What is Jesus teaching you presently?
Day 25. Style 31. Post a pic of your favorite comfy clothes.
Day 26. What do you hope your grandchildren will say about you someday when you are gone?
Day 27. Write a blog to encourage someone and build their confidence!
Day 28. Write about your insecurities as a woman.
Day 29. Write about "a day in the life of me." (Pics are great!)
Day 30. Who is your role model as a woman?
Day 31. Write about your dreams and goals as a beautiful woman!

Double Rainbow

2011-01-20T13:31:00.001-08:00

Wow - I finally fixed my problem with sending pictures to my blog from my phone!! So nice!

Don't you love this double rainbow? It was amazing!

2011-01-20T13:26:00.001-08:00

For some reason, I keep having problems posting from my phone. I've really had problems with pictures posting and am trying to figure it out. Any suggestions?

New Year

2011-01-11T16:13:00.000-08:00

For some strange reason, I thought a new year would bring new motivation and a fresh start on things. Hahahaha! What was I thinking??? Just doing the laundry, dishes and shuttling kids where they need to be is eating up all my time, it seems like!

We've had two friends have new babies in the last 12 days and that has been some needed excitement. We watched Little Nathan for 3 days while baby Griffin was born. Talk about a change of pace! He fits right into our chaos and is in love with "Mr. Nathan", so it was a fun time while he was here last week. Our friends Shannon and Ryan (Mr. P's parents) welcomed Baby Kendall on New Year's Eve!! She is a doll and we are sharing dinner with them tonight - we haven't had a chance to really visit and ohh and ahhh over Kendall yet!!

I rearranged Zoe's room/craft/sewing space in an attempt to feel inspired to create. All I really did was make a big mess for myself! I am going through my craft desk then will go through the closet again - all before my in-laws some to visit this weekend. Maybe I should get off the computer and get to work!

the end of 2010

2011-01-02T22:11:00.000-08:00

Found this on Darah's blog and liked the questions it asked, reflecting on 2010!

1. what did you do in 2010 that you’d never done before?

Had a child in first grade - wow! She is amazing to me, in so many ways.

2. did you keep your new years’ resolutions, and will you make more for next year?

I couldn't tell you what they were, so obviously, I didn't keep them. For this next year, I plan on trying to relax more, enjoy being in the moment and being better about making time for myself, everyday.

3. did anyone close to you give birth?

Haha! My best friend, Darah had the cutest baby in March and my good friend, Shannon, had a beautiful baby girl on Dec. 31st! My sister-in-law had a cutie in Sept!

4. did anyone close to you die?

Not this year.

5. what countries did you visit?

haha. haha. I'm a mother of 3 small children. And I'm a stay at home mom. You do the math.

6. what would you like to have in 2011 that you lacked in 2010?

a little more patience and peace of mind for what is, not what could be.
7. what date from 2010 will remain etched upon your memory, and why?

I don't have the exact date, but Zoe's first day of first grade was a big day. I'm not a crier about stuff like that, but she just looked sad and excited and nervous at the same time! My baby is growing up!!!

8. what was your biggest achievement of the year?

Parenting 3 children while being home full-time. Wow - so much fun but it can be tough sometimes!

9. what was your biggest failure?

See above! Parenting really challenges every part of you. Just when you think you have something right, you realize you don't. Just when you are getting into a rhythm, something happens to change it.

10. did you suffer illness or injury?

Pretty healthy year other than sniffles here and there.

11. what was the best thing you bought?

My brand new down comforter. We've been wanting a new one for awhile and we happened upon a super sale at Macy's when the one we really wanted was 50% off! I've been sleeping all toasty warm at night!

12. whose behavior merited celebration?

The girls. They are growing up so fast and it's so much fun/stress to watch their little personalities come out.

Remember this - Just today, Zoe, confessed to being a part of the hair cutting incident! She said she cut Teagan's hair and lied about it. I'm impressed that she had the guts to FINALLY tell the truth.

13. whose behavior made you appalled and depressed?

people who take advantage of other people; people who only think about themselves

14. where did most of your money go?

Mortgage, paying of loans/debts, raising 3 kids.

15. what did you get really, really, really excited about?

Seeing Darah in April - not nearly long enough, but so much FUN to have all our kids together!
Girls Get-Away weekend - so much fun spending time with great women in my family.

16. what song(s) will always remind you of 2010?

The new King's of Leon album, anything from Needtobreathe and the entire Consumed album but Jesus Culture.

17. compared to this time last year, are you

i. happier or sadder?: about the same, I guess.

ii. thinner or fatter?: thinner. still have more to go though!

iii. richer or poorer?: hahahaha! poorer, but it's all good.

18. what do you wish you’d done more of?

Playing. Relaxing. Enjoying the moment. Taking more pictures.

19. what do you wish you’d done less of?

Worrying. and dishes.

20. how did you spend Christmas?

With lots of family - so much fun!

22. did you fall in love in 2010?

More and more, every day! I'm a lucky girl.
23. what was your favorite TV program?

Parenthood, In the Middle, Raising Hope

24. do you hate anyone now that you didn’t hate this time last year?

I don't have the time, energy or will-power to hate anyone.

25. what was the best book you read?

I read several and now I can't think of titles!!

26. what was your greatest musical discovery?

NeedToBreathe

29. what did you want and get?

New black boots

30. what did you want and not get?

A new sewing machine

31. what was your favorite film of this year?

uhhhhhhh, I don't have a freakin clue!
32. what did you do on your birthday, and how old were you?

I turned 33 and I spent time with my family - I think we had dinner - I don't honestly remember!

33. what one thing would have made your year immeasurably more satisfying?

Pretty satisfying for the most part.

34. how would you describe your personal fashion concept in 2010?

Laid back but current.

35. what kept you sane?

My husband - he is the perfect balance for me. All the time. And Darah.

36. which celebrity/public figure did you fancy the most?

ummmm. don't have a clue.

37. what political issue stirred you the most?

no comment.

38. who did you miss?

I miss Darah. Every Day. It sucks when the one person, other than my husband, that knows all the good and bad about me, and still loves me - lives so far away! I'm so thankful for email and texting because we 'talk' almost every day and she keeps me sane and encourages me and doesn't judge me for the mean or stupid things I say!! I just wish we sharing coffee and play dates more than once a year!

Someday, we WILL live in at least the same time zone!!

39. who was the best new person you met?

I actually met Leslie in 2009 but really got to know her this past year. I love her southern accent and how laid back and relaxed it is hanging out with her. I'll miss her when they move in May! Bummer!
40. tell us a valuable life lesson you learned in 2010:

Let it go. Live with grace.
41. quote a song lyric that sums up your year:

I have no idea!!

December Recap

2010-12-31T15:22:00.000-08:00

Tree...Fun...Snow...Family...No School...Zoe's first (and only!) Snuggie...Sewing...Kids...Beer!...Harper talking more and more...Christmas...Sleep-overs...Time with cousins...Winter Break...2 weeks of vacation for Duffy...Christmas Eve...Mafia with the Crass/Klinger clan...Meeting new family members (Welcome to the craziness Jamie!!)...Stress...Working...Aunt Kari and Uncle Herb come to visit...Crafting...Worry...Fires in the woodstove...Jesus' birthday...Yummy food...Pillow pets...Baby dolls...New snuggly blankets...Dad's 60th birthday...Playdates...Sewing...Stress...Faith...Thankfulness...Love...Peace

Not a bad month if you ask me!

Playing with her nativity

Zoe cut down our tree

Our tree was a bit of a "Charlie Brown" tree this year.

Teagan's Christmas program

Zoe has crazy eyes in this picture!

Grandma, Teagan and Aunt Bethany

Izabella and Harper LOVED Zoe's Snuggie!

Watch Out! The Moore Women!

Visit with Santa

Christmas Eve Dinner

Christmas morning - waiting so patiently!

All the Moore kids, except baby Bella

Lounging!

December

2010-12-21T22:12:00.000-08:00

We have had a BUSY month! I can't believe Christmas is in 4 days - I have no idea where the time has gone! We have had a full month of Christmas festivities from getting our tree, caroling, pre-school programs, Christmas parties with friends, shopping, wrapping presents, sewing, and crafting.

We celebrated our first Christmas with my grandparents, aunts, uncles and cousins last Saturday. It was a great time visiting and meeting new people (Jamie - welcome to the family!!) Duffy got some great jewelry in the gift exchange, so I'm happy!

This week has been busy with finishing Christmas projects and getting ready for another trip to Aberdeen to spend time with Duffy's family. Aunt Kari and Uncle Herb are here from Cleveland and it will be a ~~crazy~~ FUN time with 6 little kids running around! Then its home on Christmas to celebrate with my family. I'm really looking forward to the visiting, eating and enjoying Christmas with our families.

Ok, back to holiday prepping! Thankfully, almost all of my shopping is done and I just have some wrapping to do!! Should be fun!!

Christmas Greetings 2010

2010-12-07T22:29:00.001-08:00

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November

2010-11-29T07:35:00.000-08:00

I had high hopes of getting several posts done during November with something special for Thanksgiving, but, alas, life happened! We have had a great month, with time spent with family and friends and preparing for the holidays. We got the outside Christmas lights up a couple of weeks ago and now, its a race with the neighbors who will have theirs up next!

We were blessed with an early snowfall this past week - our small amount equaled 9 inches! School was cancelled most of the week and with the holiday, it made for a nice mini-vacation. Zoe went to bed crying that she was going to miss us too much while at school all day today! My house needs a major cleaning after tracking in dirt and snow for a week! I plan on decorating this week and we will be getting our tree next weekend, so, we are definitely in Holiday Mode!

As to not totally ignore Thanksgiving, here are a few things I'm thankful for:

They make my day brighter and better!

Mornings when the girls sleep in - today is one of those mornings! YAY!
Time spent with family and friends - looking forward to my Monday coffee/play date!
My home
Nathan's secure job - though there are things that are frustrating at times, his company has not laid anyone off and that is a miracle in this economy!
The view of the Olympics I have every day! They are beautiful this time of year!!

Enjoy the last days of November!

Check out this give-away!! TOO Cute!!!

2010-11-15T07:42:00.000-08:00

My friend, Gretchen, is too sweet. She is hosting a great give-away on her blog and just in time for Christmas! To enter, visit her site and leave a comment on how you give to to others during the holiday season!!

I've known Gretchen since she was a little girl - I used to babysit her and her sisters. She's now a mom of a brand-new baby girl, Jemma, and it's been fun to "watch" her grow-up, though it does make me feel a bit old!!!

4 down; many more to go!!

2010-11-13T09:54:00.000-08:00

Our Indian Corn! Super easy and cute!!

Fall Trees. We had to make more after Zoe missed out making them with Teagan and Payton.

I finished 4 Christmas gifts this week!! I'm so excited! I love that I have quite the stash of Christmas gifts collecting all over the house; I'm feeling oh-so-prepared! Usually, I'm just now getting started with even thinking about gifts but this year demanded a bit more thought and preparation. We are still adjusting to being a one-income family, so I've gotten really creative and am really enjoying all the creative energy! My sewing machine is getting a work-out and I am really hoping it keeps plugging away because getting a replacement is not a priority right now (though I did suggest $$$ towards a new one would be a great gift from my parents!!)

Ok, enough blogging about my projects - time to get back to work on them!!

Blanket for Baby Isabella

Reversible dress for Harper

Other side

Name Pillow Cases - 2 down, 3 to go!!

Waiting to be made into dresses - possibly for niece Izabella????

Waiting to be snuggly blankets and matching pj pants for Zoe and Teagan.

Snuggly blankets for Harper and nephew Zach. Harper was all over this fabric at the store, so I had to make her one!!

Shutterfly Coupon!!

2010-11-12T23:47:00.000-08:00

Isn't this a great idea??? Shutterfly is giving away 50 free holiday cards to bloggers!! I found out about it from Gretchen and wanted to share! I love doing Christmas cards and getting half of what I need for free - that's even better! My Christmas card list seems to be getting longer and longer (BTW - if I don't have your address and you'd like a COOL card, email me your info!!!) each year and I always spend so much time looking for the perfect card. I'm loving the flat stationary cards but the folded cards are catching my eye too! Oh no - way to many choices!! Now, I just need to decide which is my favorite! Maybe I'll do 2 different designs, hmmmmmmm.

I love this one because I wouldn't have to write out and print an additional letter about what we've been doing. I just don't know if I can come up with 10 things that people really want to hear about!!

Is this not SUPER CUTE???

More of a traditional style but I like the spot for our initial

Too cute - love the little bird!

Totally what I was looking for last year!! Still love the color and style!

I would love to do these with favorite pictures for each of the girls. Maybe with that winning lottery ticket in my stocking this year!! I also like their calendars - being able to add birthday and other special date is AWESOME!!

Loved

2010-11-12T23:40:00.000-08:00

Tonight, as I was sewing, I loved listening to Zoe, Teagan and Harper reading away on Zoe's bed. I so wanted a photo of all three girls, pouring over their books so intently, but knew, if I got the camera, I would not capture the moment.

My sewing machine is in Zoe's room right now, and I find that the girls gravitate there when I'm working. They like to watch, ask questions about what I'm making and who it's for. Tonight, I suggested reading their new library books, while I finished a Christmas gift for my Baby niece, Isabella (I also have a toddler niece named Izabella!) It was so sweet to listen to Zoe sound out what she was reading, Teagan making up her own stories in her attempt to "read" and Harper thinking she is a big kid, reading her books on her big sisters bed.

Made my heart happy to see them enjoying books as much as I do and enjoying it all together.

Fall

2010-11-01T21:20:00.000-07:00

Pumpkins! Isn't the owl AWESOME!! Zoe's original design!

Coffee in hand, muffins baking in the oven and a lazy morning ahead. Ahhh, one of the joys of a fall morning. We have had such a busy October, I feel like I am just now starting to enjoy Fall. I love having soup simmering on the stove, a warm fire, walks in the crisp air, listening to the girls talk about how much they LOVE Halloween! Now that November is here, we are onto Thanksgiving and planning for Christmas - we are busy, busy, busy!!

Our Cute Little Spider!

She loved that sucker!

Our Clown and Chicken

Happy with her own bag!

Trick-or-treating!

At the river!

My Christmas cactus is a little confused!! It always blooms at Halloween and Easter!

Pumpkin Patch

2010-10-23T20:20:00.001-07:00

Cute! Cute! Cute!

Love her to bits!

A very rare photo with all three actually looking at the camera!!

Zoe is into making crazy faces for the camera! This one is my favorite!

What a day for the Pumpkin Patch! It was blustery and cold but we had so much fun! We found great pumpkins and the girls were silly as usual! Harper was walking all over the place and thought the piggies were fascinating. Zoe was bummed that the haunted house wasn't open and Teagan spent the entire time looking for the perfect pumpkin!

Girls Weekend

2010-10-23T09:02:00.000-07:00

Last weekend, the girls and I headed to the beach for our 6th Annual Girls-Get-Away with the women in my family. What an amazing time with amazing women. I didn't even take my camera because my cousin, Rebecca, is GREAT photographer and I counted on her for capturing the weekend a whole lot better than I could!! So, check out this and this, for some photos of our weekend!

We had the most gorgeous fall weather and enjoyed walks on the beach, time with cousins, aunts, sisters and Grandma (we celebrated her 78th birthday). Thank you girls for making yet another, memorable weekend!!

Testing

2010-10-01T21:04:00.003-07:00

I'm trying to figure out how to have my blog posts automatically update on Facebook - any tips? I think I have it but not sure. We'll see...

New find

2010-09-29T22:46:00.000-07:00

So, I've been a Drugstore.com shopper for years. I love that I can find all sorts of natural products and things I can't find around here for great prices. The only problem is when I only need a few things, the shipping cost takes away from getting things at great prices. So, the other day, I checked out Soap and I am thrilled!

I started out wanting to purchase 3 BioKleen products from Drugstore.com (see below). They were on sale but by the time shipping costs were added on, it was going to be over $30. I then went to Soap and found the same 3 BioKleen products, for a higher price but Soap offers free shipping at $25. And not just regular shipping 1-2 day FedEx shipping!! Yippee!! When my box got here, the dish soap had leaked about a cup of soap all over the box. I sent an email to Soap stating that I loved the prompt shipping, etc. but could they seal the lids the next time because of the accidental spillage. I received a prompt reply and they sent out another bottle of dish soap, for free! I received it today, FedEx, and the bottle was wrapped in zip-top plastic bag! I was so impressed! I didn't expect a replacement and it was great to feel taken care of!!

Here's what I bought!

I use Bac-Out with my diapers every once in awhile and I love the scent and how it freshens! BioKleen is also a local company, based out of Vancouver, WA!!

This soap smells AMAZING and I love it!

Haven't tried it yet but will let you know!

Sales

2010-09-29T12:01:00.000-07:00

I'm in between sales right now, so I'm a bit frazzled and blogging is taking a back burner! Last weekend, I was helping Duffy's parents with an estate/garage sale and this week, I'm getting ready for a garage sale with my parents. I keep thinking of things to get rid of and clean out, which is great but then life is still happening. Like getting a phone call at 5pm saying we had a closing appointment for our re-fi at 6pm - that same day! Nice that we didn't know about it. The great thing was she came to our house and we were finished in 45 minutes, but it still threw off the evening.

So, now, I'm back to cleaning/organizing everything and still doing everything else that needs to get done! I scored a few things from Duffy's grandma's (a whole post is coming on the great pans I found!) and I have found a few of my own things I'm going to re-purpose and move around.

Ok, back to work!!

About...

2010-09-14T08:23:00.001-07:00

I liked this "About Me" because it was different - it isn't your standard "What do you like to drink/favorite color" style. If found it to be more reflective, so I figured I'd give it a try! I stole the format from my friend Gretchen's blog, who I think copied it from someone else!! Give it a try!!

{I am...} never going to be perfect, so why do I keep trying to be???

{I want...} my family to be happy.

{I have...} more than I need.

{I keep...} a lot of things for sentimental reasons.

{I wish I could...} go on a vacation somewhere hot. With a beach. And drinks with umbrellas.

{I hate...} spiders. Bugs. Snakes.

{I fear...} that one of my kids will get sick and I won't be able to make it better.

{I hear...} the sounds of little kids - Mr. P talking to Harper, music from multiple toys and little feet! (That was earlier! Now it is Zoe complaining about how much homework she has to do!)

{I don't think...} people realize how insecure I am.

{I regret...} things I have done that have hurt other people.

{I love...} good food.

{I can...} very seldomly keep a straight face.

{I dance...} when we have Dance Party at home.

{I sing...} only to my children.

{I never...} go without coffee. Never. Ever.

{I rarely...} give myself enough credit.

{I cry when I watch...} really sappy commercials.

{I know that...} I am loved.

{I hate that...} I live so far away from Darah and we can't just get together for coffee whenever we want! Bummer!

{I need...} something to drink.

{I should...} workout more consistently.

{I believe...} you can do anything, if you really want to.

What brings you JOY?

2010-09-12T09:32:00.000-07:00

My mom and I had this conversation the other day - what brings you Joy? Not just what makes you happy, because that list is endless for me, but what, in my life, brings me JOY. What makes me laugh out loud, smile for the rest of the day, makes me feel complete and fulfilled. My friend Darbi just posted about how writing makes her happy and needing to make time for it, make it a priority. I think so many of us moms get into the MOM routine and forget to do things that bring us JOY. So, here are a few of the things that bring me JOY!!

When my kids laugh so hard, their eyes scrunch up and you can't see them

Sewing - right now I have several projects going and I can't talk about a lot of them because, you know, Christmas is coming!! I'm finishing up a skirt (for myself - never happens!) made out of fabric that was my Grandma Lou's - it makes me smile working with something that was hers and knowing that she taught me to sew; I think about how she must be smiling in heaven.

Uncontrollable laughter

Harper "singing'" in her crib

Teagan and Zoe dancing

Cooking - I love to cook and it is how I tell people I love them. I love when we have people over for dinner - sharing food with others fills my heart.

Duffy doing something unexpected - these days, it could be unloading the dishwasher (something I hate to do!) or getting kids into the bathtub!!

Spending time with siblings

Watching/listening to Duffy play the drums - he has such a child-like, expression-filled face, you can't help but enjoy it. We have a drum kit temporarily located in our living room and it's been a lot of fun watching/listening to him play and teach the girls things about the drums.

Finding something whimsical in an unlikely place.

What brings you JOY? What makes your heart smile?

Diaper update

2010-09-09T22:59:00.000-07:00

Yes, I'm still cloth diapering and I enjoy it! Duffy on the other hand, not so much. He doesn't mind the wet diapers but the poopy ones, he acts like it's nuclear waste!!

It's pretty funny actually - when I got started on it, I talked about it with a couple of friends and since then, they are both cloth diapering their new babies. It's a hot topic at our Monday bible study - what we are buying, how its going, laundry, which websites we like (I'm a big fan of Cotton Babies because they carry almost everything I need and have free shipping!!). All in all, I'm a fan. Even though Harper is probably our last child, I'm glad I chose to do it! I don't even mind the extra laundry!!

A little rant

2010-09-09T21:09:00.000-07:00

Ok, I don't rant about stuff very often on my blog, but I'm really frustrated. I try to buy 'green' products as often as possible. I'll tell you about the products I do like and would love to hear what you love to use. And what you don't!

I love Mrs. Meyer's (anything in the Basil scent, thank you!!)

7th Generations bathroom cleaner is great - it cleans well and smells great.

I use Baby-Ganics Stain, Stain Go Away on tough diaper stains and Country Save to wash diapers (it's a local, WA company too) and am in love with BioKleen's Bac-Out for tough odors -LOVE IT!

And I really like the Ecos laundry detergent and Kirkland Environmentally Friendly detergents for all our clothes. Everything comes out clean and smelling good (not perfumey at all!!)

But what I'm seriously annoyed about is dishwasher detergent. I had been using the Costco liquid and it cleans great but is full of who knows what. I was really excited when Costco started carrying the Ecos brand dishwasher detergent. I bought some and was excited to use it - why, I'm not really sure! I have been sooooo disappointed! My dishes, especially my silverware, come out of the DW looking dirty and with dried-on stuff, etc. on them! I swear I have to wash several things each time! It came in a 2 bottle pack and at first, I thought I could manage washing a few things once in awhile, if I was doing my part to help the environment. By the time I got into the 2nd bottle, I'm so irritated that I'm thinking of going back to the Costco brand! At least my dishes come out clean - EVERY TIME! Come on - I don't have time to do the dishes twice! It's not like I put them in dirty either - I'm one of those that rinses and scrubs things before they go in!!

I want to know what "green" products you love and hate - I'm on a quest!!

First Day of School

2010-09-08T09:41:00.000-07:00

Zoe is off to her first day of first grade. She did awesome this morning and will have all sorts of things to share when she gets home at 2:45!

Teagan started in the 4 year old class at the pre-school and there were some familiar faces, so it made things a bit easier for her!

Goof-Balls

2010-09-03T21:18:00.000-07:00

Harper was being goofy this morning at breakfast! Her little personality is so funny - she starts laughing and giggling to get your attention and she loves when her big sisters are playing with her! She loves to push her walker around and is cruising all over the place - she'll be walking soon! We better watch out!

Showing off her new blanket from Mom! We left one of our favorites at Brady's house, so we needed a new one - this matches her bedroom better anyway!

Teagan loves to get into my closet and wear my boots. I personally like her outfit for the day - she picked it out and since we weren't going anywhere, it was good practice for me to just let her wear stuff that totally clashed! I asked her several times if she felt like changing and she kept telling me she like her outfit just fine!

Friendships

2010-09-02T17:10:00.000-07:00

We live in a small town. Not one that either Duffy or I grew up in and one that, frankly, I'm sort of surprised we ended up here. I spent a lot of time in Sequim in middle/high school and Darah will tell you, I said I'd never live here. Things change when you grow up, get married and start a family. My parents moved up here when I was in college and coming to visit them, there was so much to do outside and we liked that it didn't rain as much (11 inches compared to 40 in Olympia). So, being the adventurous types (we were all set to move to Boise, ID the year before!) we decided to move. It has been a great place to raise a family and we love the small town feel. I love the weather, being close to the beach and the mountains.

We have met amazing people and have great friends here, but, I'm grieving my long-standing friendships right now. Those relationships with the people you've known forever. The ones you can vacation with, show up at their house anytime, and you're still welcome. Where you can totally be yourself, all the time, and they still love you. The people you have history with.

That's the problem with moving, growing-up, having a family. Things change.

I should be...

2010-08-31T13:10:00.000-07:00

Sewing. That's what I'm supposed to be doing. I have a bunch of projects, 3 going right now. And what do I do when my brain needs a break? Start looking at other craft projects. My latest distraction is this fab website. The only problem is that now I have this strong desire to start needlework! What is wrong with me???

New

2010-08-22T21:56:00.000-07:00

I'm sitting on my couch, watching the 5th season of House and blogging. What was that? Blogging while sitting in the living room? YES! We finally got a laptop and I am so happy. You can stop laughing now - we are probably the last people you know to get a laptop. I'm probably the last person I know without one! That is what happens when your husband spends WAY too much money on a desktop, 7 years ago, that is now showing signs of its age!

Now, maybe I'll be more productive in my posting!!

Yummmmmmm

2010-07-15T11:36:00.001-07:00

I found a recipe for Browned Butter frosting and it is AMAZING! So, for Harper's birthday, I made lemon cupcakes (took the cheater way and used a boxed mix, but will do from scratch next time! I made 4 dozen cupcakes, so I had to save time somewhere!!), topped with the yummy frosting and added toasted coconut to finish. Soooooo good! I think I have to stop watching Cupcake Wars on Food Network!

Happy Birthday Baby H

2010-07-15T08:41:00.000-07:00

What a sweet baby you are! I can't believe a year has come and gone so quickly! You are such a snuggler and love to smile and wave. You love when people are laughing and when you see your daddy playing the drums, you let everyone know, that's your "Dada!" Your big sisters love you so much, it's probably annoying! Thank you for making our family complete!!

Summer

2010-07-13T15:25:00.000-07:00

We have had a busy few weeks of summer. Lots of playing, crafting, going to the park, Vacation Bible Schools, bike riding, running around outside, bonfires and s'mores and just enjoying the freedom of no school and lots of daylight. Here are some pictures.

2010-07-13T14:12:00.001-07:00

Testing

To do Today

2010-07-13T08:36:00.001-07:00

I have so much to blog about and so little time! I WILL get some things posted today - I promise! With nice weather and a houseful of kids (2 extra 3 days a week and a 6th last Friday), it's been a bit tough. And I don't have a laptop -I know, I'm one of the very last not to have one, but our desktop is still doing great (barely, but I can't afford to replace it right now!!); the only problem is that it's in our bedroom and when I would take the time to blog, Duffy's gone to bed and the last things he wants to listen to is my typing away!!!

So, be patient. I will have posts and pictures today. Or, maybe tomorrow!

2010-06-22T12:06:00.000-07:00

Why is it that when you start a project, it snowball's into about 15 other projects????

We decided to move Zoe into the guest/craft/sewing room 2 weeks ago. It's been a good move because all the girls seem to sleep better (not talking at night, waking each other up at the crack of dawn) and they are trying to keep their own stuff clean up. The problem is, there is still a bunch of my stuff in Zoe's new room. I go in to move something, realize that I need to clean out and reorganize the hall closet to accommodate what I'm moving and 2 hours, 10 interruptions later, I've moved one, rather small thing out of her room! At this rate, it will take me a year to get her some room in the closet!!

And of course, her room, the smallest of the two, is where everyone wants to play and hang out, making it that much harder for me to do anything! I'm too embarrassed to even post a picture so you'll just have to wait until it's totally finished. Check back next year!!

Things Teagan says...

2010-06-11T09:51:00.000-07:00

While getting ready this morning:

Teagan: I combed my hair - do I look like a princess??

Me: Yes, you do. But you know, it's not really about what you look like on the outside. It's really about what you are like on the inside. Being kind, polite, being a good listener; loving your sisters, your family, God.

T: I love God.

Me: I know you do.

T: You have big boobs mommy.

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T: Have you had your tattoo for a long time?

M: Yes, I got it in college.

T: WOW! Will you have it when you are an old lady?

M: Yup. That's why you think really hard and get something that you know you will love for a really long time.

T: I want one of those real tattoos.

M: Yeah, well, you need to wait awhile.

T: Yeah, like when I go to college.

Ahhhh

2010-06-05T10:01:00.001-07:00

I had a vision for how I wanted this morning to go. It went something like this:

Sleep in until at least 7am since we've been up super early every morning this week (anywhere from 5:40am - 6:30am)
Make yummy coffee and enjoy it in a leisurely fashion, maybe reading a bit while the girls watch cartoons, color, etc.
Have all my children wake up happy, refreshed and ready for a good day that involves playing nicely, getting along, enjoying time inside and outside

So far, it isn't going like that at all. Harper woke up at 6:30am and the big girls shortly after. They started out in good moods but that quickly changed, and for what reason, I do not know! They are picking at each other and whatever one does, the other cry's/yells/tattles or stomps away! I've made coffee but never get to enjoy the entire cup while it is still hot!

We are heading outside because I'm going to mow the lawn and the lawn mower will drown out the sound of the fighting!

Family Dynamics

2010-06-02T15:48:00.000-07:00

This past weekend (Memorial Day) we went camping. Well, sort of. We camped our trailer in my grandparents yard and enjoyed the comforts of their dry, warm house! We got to spend a lot of time with brother, Bethany and Izabella - It's been awhile since we could just hang out and not have a bunch of stuff going on! I'm so thankful that we all get along, have so much fun together and the girls get to grow up together - it just makes me sad when it comes to an end because I realize how far away Portland really is!

We also got to spend some time with a lot of my extended family. It's been a really long time since we've been able to spend more than an hour or two with my aunts and uncles, cousins and their kids. I love that my girls can't wait to play with their cousins and I love watching them all grow up together.

Sunday was spent celebrating Duffy's 36th birthday! He got to sleep in (a rarity at our house), play Cabella's Big Game Hunter (how he could fight of the mountain lions and not have a heart attack, I don't know!!!) enjoy great BBQ and yummy food prepared by all the great cooks in our family. His cake request (cupcakes in ice cream cones) was a big hit with all the kids and even some of the adults! At one point, we counted 28 people, including Duffy's parents (it was also his mom's birthday!!) and brother's family. We feel sooooooo blessed that our families are close in proximity and relationship to share in birthdays and holidays - it makes things so much easier when time is limited!! And I love to see everyone together - it makes my heart happy.

Now it's back our real life. Teagan finished with school this week and Zoe has 2 weeks to go. We have a busy summer full of Vacation Bible Schools, having friends come and hang out a couple of days a week, weekend trips to Grandma and Grandpa's, vacation with Dad in August (maybe another camping trip....), and oh, yeah, Harper's First Birthday in July!!! Fun times ahead!!

SWAGGER WAGON

2010-05-24T16:57:00.000-07:00

Anyone that knows me well, knows how I have PROTESTED getting a mini-van. I drove my Volvo wagon (which I got when Zoe was a baby) until Harper was 3 months old and it no longer worked with 3 kids all in car seats or booster seats. I test drove a Sienna while I was pregnant with H and I cried. Literally. I had to stop while I was driving because I was crying - I just didn't see myself as the mini-van driving mom. It would be fine with all the kids in it, but what about when I was by myself?? Nothing screams Suburban Housewife more than a mini-van!

That being said, I think I could drive one of these - the totally pimped out version of course! Oh, I'd have to sell off all non-vital organs to pay for it but this is a HOT mini-van!! Enjoy!

***BTW - I drive a Suburban. Where I live, it yells Small Town, Stay-at-home-mother of more than one child pretty loudly too! Especially when you roll in behind 5 others dropping Z off at school!!

Teagan Turns 4

2010-05-11T17:45:00.000-07:00

Happy Birthday dear Teagan! We welcomed you to our little family 4 years ago and it has been so much fun! You are constantly full of energy and love following/pestering your big sister! You love Harper so much, always wanting to play with her and help her out - even if she doesn't need it! You love going to school and playing with your friends. You LOVE music! Your dad and I always notice you singing and lately, playing the air guitar! You are always moving - dancing mostly. The minute music comes on, which is frequently at our house, you are moving and grooving!

You are such a wonderful, good-natured, happy little girl and we love you very, very much!!

Happy Mother's Day

2010-05-09T08:22:00.001-07:00

Happy Mother's Day to all the great moms and grandmas! The world is a better place because of all of you!!!

2010-05-06T12:51:00.001-07:00

This is a total teat run to see if I set up my mobile blogging the right way! Hmmmm, will this keep me motivated to blog more??

Mr. P

2010-05-01T08:43:00.000-07:00

We met Mr. P when he was only a few months old. His parents were some of the first people we met when we started going to Olympic-View and we have been friends ever since. We've shared many dinners and celebrated birthday's together these past 2 years and are looking forward to many more.

When P was about a year old, Teagan was obsessed with him. She was going to marry him when he got older, planned on taking him to San Diego with her (whenever that was!). P's parents work from home, so I've watched him a few times when they needed me. I've always thought it was fun having him around and now that he is 2, he interacts and plays great with the girls.

A couple of weeks ago, Shannon, his mom, asked if I was interested in watching him one morning a week and more when her other babysitter wasn't available. YES! YES! YES! He fits right in with my kids, adds a great "boy" vibe to our all girl house and Zoe and Teagan play better when he's here. The funny thing is, after she asked me about watching him, I got a notice from Unemployment that my benefits were up at the end of the next week - the same week I would start watching him! Talk about great timing - Thank you GOD! I watched him every day last week and it was great. The girls ask regularly what day Mr. P is coming over and Zoe keeps telling me she is practicing for when she is old enough to babysit.

I am looking forward to Mr. P Mondays (and any other day that he may be here) and watching him grow up! He is too cute!

9 months

2010-04-21T09:04:00.000-07:00

I told Duffy the other day that Harper, being 9 months old, has been alive as many months as I was pregnant. I remember thinking this with Zoe and Teagan, but for some reason, it seems so much more meaningful with Harper. I've been thinking about it a lot this last week and am in awe of how much she has changed in 9 months. Here are some of the things I've thought:

Since she will probably be our last child, I'm trying to cherish every last baby moment. Unless God has other plans for us, this will be the last time I'm dealing with rolling over, crawling, first teeth, diapering, etc.

I was laid off at 5 months pregnant and other than working at The Good Book a few hours a week, I was home full-time and able to really enjoy my pregnancy. I worked full-time with Zoe and part-time with Teagan and even though things went smoothly, I sometimes look back and don't even remember parts of their pregnancies. With Harper, I was able to play with my kids, garden, enjoy the great weather we had and enjoy being pregnant.

Since we've decided that life at our house/life goes more smoothly with me being home more, I'm enjoying being home with Harper more as a baby. There are frustrations that come with this though: less money, being creative with EVERYTHING, Harper refusing to take a bottle! But the joys are so much more: Harper's love for daddy and sisters, being able to spend so much more quality time with the girls - I can NEVER get this time back! Being available to watch Mr. P (a entire post of it's own - a total blessing!!) and being available to spend time with family and friends.

It's amazing to me how much a baby learns in 9 months. They go from sleeping, eating and pooping all the time to laughing, smiling, rolling over, crawling, grabbing everything, finding amusement in siblings, eating "real" food, being silly, pulling themselves up on things, playing with anything!

Blogging

2010-04-20T07:48:00.000-07:00

I really want to be one of those people that posts at least once a week! I'm jealous of those that can do it with wit, creativity and style! I always think of good topics to blog about when it is the least convenient time to blog and I have seemed to fail miserably at the recipe a week, photo a week, etc.

Maybe if I think about it like laundry and vacuuming, it has to get done every week, I'll have better success.

End

2010-04-13T14:11:00.000-07:00

Well, my unemployment benefits have come to an end. I have reached the end of my benefit year and will not be re-applying for benefits. I am glad to be done with the job-searches, meeting with WorkSource as to why I haven't found a full-time job (hello, I haven't worked full time in over 5 years!) and feeling like I've always got someone checking up on me.

I'm excited/nervous/scared as to how things will work out financially, but am thankful for the hours at The Good Book (you know, my boss there can be a total slave driver!! Love you mom!!) and I'm going to be watching our friends little boy one day a week and fill-in when needed, so there will be a little income coming in. I'm getting really creative with all sorts of things around the house to save money and we are relocating our garden beds to hopefully have a more fruitful garden! And I'm loving the time at home - I can never get this time back, so to be able to be at home with them is amazing! Yes, things would be easier if I was working and bringing home a bigger paycheck, but what is more important for my family, right now??

Happy Birthday Sweet Princess

2010-03-24T16:02:00.000-07:00

Happy 6th Birthday Zoe Lynne!!
You make everyday brighter and so much more fun and interesting!!! You are a great big sister and wonderful daughter! We love you so much!

Adventures in Cloth Diapering

2010-03-13T10:44:00.000-08:00

So, a few weeks ago, I started thinking about cloth diapering. I've actually been thinking about if for a long while, since Teagan was a baby, but just didn't get that into it. When I started researching it this time around, I really got into it - it is something I can do to save some money (though, at first, as you are buying diapers and getting used to the laundry, it may not seem like it!); it's leaving a smaller footprint on our environment and it's not like Harper is in daycare - the only people changing her diapers are me and Duffy!

I've gotten some mixed reactions from people in my mom's generation (and some from my generation too!) - why would I think of doing this with the ease and convenience of disposables? It was a lot of work when I did it, why would you want to do all that extra work? It's so messy, disposables are so much easier. Am I crazy? First of all, cloth diapering has come a long way from when I wore them some 32 years ago - there are no pins if you don't want them; there are a ton of options as to the type of diapers you can use; some of the systems even come with disposable inserts! And I don't do any toilet swishing! I use a dry pail and wash everything every other day! And yes, maybe I am a little bit crazy, but then, aren't we all???

I'm not so die-hard that I don't see the benefits of disposables. Traveling is a perfect example! I am primarily going with the Flip system because the covers are totally awesome! The stay dry inserts work fabulously and they come with a disposable insert option that is reasonably priced and works great! So, I'll keep you posted on our adventure. For now, it seems to be going good!!

Pretzel Jell-o

2010-02-17T12:14:00.001-08:00

Ok, for those that have never had it - don't knock it until you have some!

Pretzel Jell-o Recipe

3 C. broken pretzels

3/4 C. melted butter

3 T. sugar

Mix together and press into the bottom of a greased 9x13 pan. Bake at 400 for 10 minutes, cool.

12oz cream cheese, softened

1 C powdered sugar

1 8oz tub Cool Whip

Beat cream cheese & sugar until smooth. Fold in cool whip and carefully spread over pretzel mixture.

1 6oz raspberry or strawberry jell-o

1 large pkg. frozen raspberries or strawberries

2 C. water

Dissolve jell-o in boiling water. Stir in frozen berries, stirring until jell-o begins to thicken. Spread over cool whip mixture in pan. Refrigerate until set. Cut into squares to serve.

Family Photos

2010-02-17T11:53:00.000-08:00

We had pictures taken this past November and I realized I never posted any! Our friend Shannon's sister is an awesome photographer and we were lucky enough to catch a break in the weather one weekend when she was visiting!!

Check her out on the web: www.erinvey.com

Marymere Falls

2010-02-16T12:21:00.000-08:00

We are so lucky to live where we do. We have so many options for outdoor activities and it seems like they are all in our back yard! 2 weeks ago we packed up a picnic lunch and we out to Lake Crescent to do the 1.5 mile hike to Marymere Falls. The girls had a blast checking out the trees, river and the falls. I packed Harper and she did great until the end - she started screaming about the time we ate lunch and didn't stop until we were well on our way home!

Still here

2010-02-07T09:07:00.000-08:00

We are still here, still alive and still doing stuff - just doing lots of stuff and having a hard time finding the time and motivation to sit down and blog. I will do it this week though - I have some pictures of the our hike yesterday, the busy girls and more!

A quick update to keep you interested:

Zoe had her first visit to the dentist (her first appt. just for her actually) and everything is great. She even got to play dentist with Dr. Birch - he is so awesome!

Harper is scooting herself all over the place and nothing is safe! She is into talking to you and is really funny! The big girls try to get her to come to their room by tempting her with her toys!

Duffy has been on a route where he's had the last 4 Saturday's off! It makes for a long Mon-Fri. but it has been nice having the extra day off. Only 1 more week though then it's back to his normal schedule.

The big girls are busy, busy, busy with school and loving it. Zoe is learning to read like a champ and it's funny when she askes what words mean, she never gives you the context! Teagan like to think she can read. She had "Hop on Pop" the other day and told Zoe she could read it; she just sat their whispering to herself!

I will post again this week, I promise! I have a few recipes to do and some pics to post!

Tasty Tuesday

2010-01-12T11:40:00.001-08:00

So, my friend Melissa wanted to try something this year, Tasty Tuesday, as a way to share recipes that we are trying, family favorites, and our old stand-bys. I love the idea - I'm always looking for new recipes (we do Meat-Free Monday, so I'm definately looking for great vegetarian recipes) and I love to cook, so, I'm jumping on the band-wagon and sharing a recipe every week as well.

Red Bean and Quinoa Chili

Recipe from Feeding the Whole Family by Cynthia Lair. (my new favorite cookbook!!!)

This is a one-dish meal you can make in 45 minutes. Try serving it to guests – they’ll love it!

Ingredients
2 tsp extra virgin olive oil
1 medium onion, chopped
2 tsp sea salt
1 large green pepper, chopped
2 tsp cumin
1 tsp dried oregano
1/8 tsp cinnamon
1/8 tsp cayenne
2/3 cup quinoa, rinsed in warm water and drained
1 cup fresh or frozen corn
1 cup tomato sauce or canned tomatoes
1 cup water
1 15oz can kidney beans, drained

Garnish ingredients (optional)
Chopped cilantro
Low fat or non fat sour cream

Preparation

Heat oil in skillet on medium heat.
Add onion, salt, garlic, pepper and spices, saute for 5-10 minutes.
Add rinsed quinoa and stir in.
Add corn, tomato sauce or canned tomatoes and water to onion/quinoa mixture. Simmer together for 20 minutes.
Add beans to other ingredients, simmer another 10 minutes.
Top with cilantro and/or sour cream, if desired.

This is a great meat-free chili and Duffy didn't even miss the meat. We topped with avocado's and cheese as well.

Ok Ok

2010-01-06T17:23:00.000-08:00

Yes, I have been super slow in getting anything posted that has to do with Christmas. I don't really know why, either. I'll post pictures later but I'll at least write about the month of December.

Duffy's parents bought tickets for the Santa Train in North Bend for mid-December. Since it would make for a REALLY long drive over and back in one day for us, we headed over the night before and stay in Issaquah. The girls had a great time (staying in a hotel is a favorite thing to do for them!) swimming in the pool and staying up late watching TV. The next morning we headed to North Bend to do a little shopping before meeting Grandma, Grandpa, Uncle Dennis, Aunt Becky, Zach and Lainey. It started snowing while we were waiting for the train and snowed the entire time. It was really pretty and added to the fun. The big news to all this, is that Zoe, who is mesmerized and terrified of Santa, sat on his lap! It was amazing! After an early dinner, we headed home for the last week of school.

Zoe's class had a pajama party on the last day of school and Zoe ended the week with pink eye - it was super fun trying to prescription, over the phone, on the weekend. We headed down to Montesano to do Christmas with my extended family (fun times and good food) and Christmas with the Moore's. It was really relaxing and really felt like Christmas on the Sunday before. Duffy had the week before Christmas off, so we spent most days being lazy and just enjoying the Christmas season. We had dinner with my parents Christmas eve then celebrated Christmas Day with my parents, Jordan, Bethany and Izabella and my grandparents. It was so laid back and relaxing and I got to sleep in my own bed at night!

Christmas is all put away at our house and we are getting back into the routine of school and work (I'm now working Thursday afternoons at The Good Book). We have been in a cleaning and reorganizing spree as well. We are realizing we don't have all that much time left before we will have to make some serious room changes and move things around - Harper can't sleep in our room forever! We will have to update our computer one of these days (please, don't die yet! I can't afford to replace you yet!) and when we do that, we will probably move things around to make the spare room work better for a sleeping baby!

Speaking of baby, Harper is growing like crazy! She weighs 18 pounds and is 28 inches long. She is rolling over and scooting/crawling! You can't leave her anywhere for too long because she gets into stuff or falls off the bed! She has such a laid back personality and is a really happy baby. She is teething too and I expect to find a little tooth in there any day!

Ok, time to get back to my real life - children and dinner are calling!